Reno Alert: Find Briana Denison

Update:  Briana Denison was murdered     Police continue to search for the killer, who they belive is a serial rapist murderer.

Briana Denison has probably been abducted in Reno, Nevada.    Click HERE for stories and pictures.

The story appears to be that Briana was sleeping at a friend’s house after a night out, and was abducted from that house, possibly by an ex-boyfriend.    Police are searching the neighborhood door to door for her.

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31 Responses to Reno Alert: Find Briana Denison

  1. FoolsGold says:

    Driver of SUV contacted the police and was interviewed at length and eliminated.
    The description of the sleeping arrangements sounds like the woman was sleeping in an unlocked display case.
    Dog’s failing to bark? Why not test the dog by sending a stranger in the next night and see if he yaps his head off or not.
    Volunteers from Lutheran churches and local real estate offices and local casinos are showing up but I fear its too late. One hundred thousand dollar reward may help find the culprit.

  2. FoolsGold says:

    It seems that intruder may not have known she was there but would easily have known that young college females lived there and frequently had guests going in and out.

    House is one block from a heavily trafficked roadway.

    Missing girl made a 4:23am phone call and most likely would have sat up to do it and been partially visible from the sidewalk and road.

    Abduction almost certainly would have been pre-dawn. Why though would the abductor have had to have created such a bloody mess on the stuffed teddy bear pillow, particularly if his victim is only 98 pounds?

    No clues.

  3. FoolsGold says:

    Search crews increasing geographic scope of search area since no clues have been found. No leads. No suspects.

  4. FoolsGold says:

    DNA test of substance found at abduction scene links case to unknown assailant in nearby rape case.

  5. * says:

    If this whore hadn’t been out drinking till 4AM, displaying her “wares” at the local “Meat Market” scene, this might not have happened to her! Thanks to the anti-God, liberal culture in America… our kids are in such a hurry to grow up, have sex, try drugs etc etc… shame on America!

  6. Joe Duck says:

    Here’s an update on the new DNA evidence. Looks like the kidnapper had assaulted another woman a few weeks earlier:

  7. FoolsGold says:

    Needless to say the comment above that is now numbered ‘5’ is utter garbage and is not written by the REAL Fools Gold.

    The dna is linked to a particular crime. Vehicle and individual descriptions are available but no particular suspect has yet been identified.

  8. * says:

    Needless to say the comment above that is now numbered ‘7’ is utter garbage and proof that I insist on living with my “head in the sand” with regard to why this tragedy may have occurred in the first place. I insist on treating the symtom instead of curing the disease… driveling endlessly, like some unemployed investigator, about DNA evidence, clues and suspects. The liberal culture is once again enabled.

  9. inspire112281 says:

    to the author of comment #5: if you were actually a true Christian, you would leave judgment to God and Him alone. Your comment is both disgusting and sad; in times of outright tragedy you choose to climb up on your high horse. You ought to be ashamed of yourself.

    Thoughts and prayers with Briana and her family as they endure these hard times.

  10. mom in miami says:

    A HYPOTHESIS was the young girl “waiting” for someone to come by and see her? because…why was she sleeping alone on a couch, instead of with her friends, unless her friends had their beds occupied? …also, regarding the nancy grace show last night, she mentioned the assailnt had a shaved pubic area, then COULD this ASSAILANT be a SWIMMER, A WEIGHT LIFTER, OR A WRESTLER? don’t they shave their bodies? I’m not saying they all shave, but it’s a possibility.

  11. Meaghan says:

    To “foolsgold” who called Brianna a whore. You are a piece of scum. Are you kidding me? Do you know this girl personally? I think not, because if you did you would know that she is a shy, reserved girl. How dare you!! I know this girl and I am close to her family. I think that you are a pathetic, disgusting, uneducated person. She does NOT do drugs and she does NOT drink excessively! Next time you decide to write something so rude and hurtful you should think about the people that really know and care about her.

  12. lyn says:

    #5 you sound like you are guilty I am contacting the police you have mental issues and sound skitzo

  13. Renoreno says:

    Gruesome but have they looked around in dumpsters ie apts near the univ ?

  14. FoolsGold says:

    Search is hampered by snowfall and other problems but is focusing mainly on areas where a body might be transported by a vehicle and then dumped. Outside of Reno this is a rather vast area.
    I wonder if vehicle is owned by a married man (reports of baby shoe near front seat).

  15. FoolsGold says:

    Impressive searcher turnout continues, but nothing turning up yet.

  16. FoolsGold says:

    Public donations have exceeded the amount needed by the sheriff to clear a dna backlog at the county crime lab.

    Nearby colleges are sending teams of searchers. Equestrians are being used as are the hounds that would normally be used in fox hunts. The hounds are not following any scent but their inquisitiveness is an asset in any search.

    So far, no leads.

  17. El Paso mom says:

    My prayers are with Brianna and her family. As a mother I cant imagine what they are going through. I was always told that if you dont have something nice to say to say nothing at all. So for that ugly person on comment 5 SHUT UP!

  18. Reno Mom says:

    A female body was discovered today in South Suburban Reno. To comment #5: How insensitive of you! Who are you to judge? Where you there? Have you mentioned your thoughts to YOUR mother/family. . . I’m sure they would be ashamed!!

  19. FoolsGold says:

    Search Center closed this Sunday for a day of prayer and remembrance.
    Search Center staff will report as usual on Monday.
    Autopsy confirmed identity as being Brianna Denison and also confirmed sexual assault and death by strangulation.

    Forensic evidence gathering at scene continues as does search for vehicles fitting the description.

  20. Jose miguel says:

    I think is somebody who knows de campus very well ,maybe a university employee ,it seems when and how to strike ,mark my words .And i hope god gives brianna’s family the strench and love they deserve

  21. terry says:

    my name is terry wagar I’m e-mailing you because I’m at a loss as to what i can do about a very dangerous murder conspiracy against me and others, for over 2 and a half years I’ve suffered from this conspiracy, it began { as best as i can tell,} when my wife joan wagar started having a affair with a co-worker named eric carlson, there affair started around April of 2005, i had reason to believe they was trying to kill me back then but i wasnt sure at the time, I’m very very sure now! there is a very interesting fact about eric that joan tried to hide from me and my daughters, he is almost identical in appearance to me! my wife nicknamed him doubleclick, when i learned of my wifes affair i also learned of that nickname and asked joan “why do you call him doubleclick ” she said ” oh thats what everyone calls him at work,” ever since my wife joan insisted her affair was over, it never ended, year and a half all kinds of odd things was happening i started getting very sick from time to time, i suspected she was poisoning me but was not sure at the time, i am now! in early 2006 around Feb or mar i went to the hospital asking to be tested because my wife was talking in her sleep saying she was poisoning me, i went to OHSU and signed in, they informed me that its unlikely that they will find anything but they took my vitals and i waited in the lobby, i waited 4 and a half hours and they never called me back to be checked, and no officers came to question me about my concerns. so i went home, i could tell no one there cared. this is just too long to explain so i will try to get to the point, on march 26th of 2007 at 5;55 am i put a audio recorder in joans purse because i heard my wife whispering to someone in her bedroom, { i slept on the couch, our marriage was falling apart.} i heard what sounded like a guy whispering back, so i put my recorder in her purse expecting to finally catch joan in the act and laid down pretending to still be asleep, ten minutes later my wife left for work, what i caught on there was a lot more than i expected, i caught a murder conspiracy! i didn’t know it right away because the audio i got is like 17 hours long, when i heard on it she was with eric two days later i left her and moved in with my oldest daughter shawna, i spent the next week and a half on and off trying to listen to this audio, it didn’t take long to figure out i was being framed for something by my wife and her lover, and they had help! lots of help, i learned i was under INVESTIGATION BY THE FBI and these INVESTIGATORS were good friends with joan and eric and they all met up at our apartment that morning in joans bedroom, they climbed in through joans window, i learned they were there to frame me as a pedophile, eric was posing for pictures in kayles bedroom,{ our youngest daughter,} while the INVESTIGATOR named ERICA { last name unknown to me.} was taking pictures of him while kayle slept, after words eric climbed out joans window and waited for her in her car, and a john ray climbed in and helped joan put something on our computer and then he left the way he came, joan finished getting ready for work and picked up her purse and left for work, once outside joan was talking to these INVESTIGATORS and discussing what they was going to do next, joan and eric on the ride to work was discussing what they was going to say to other employees when they get there, joan mentioned to eric {you woke her up} referring to kayle, and then they discussed breaking into shawnas apartment with ERICA, after lots of listening to that audio i learned joan eric and erica planed to rape shawna and murder her and then frame me for this! they planed to use a signed check of mine to purchase a gun in my name, remember eric looks almost like me in appearance, eric was going to use my ID and one of my checks to purchase a gun, joan was instructed to collect my sperm, eric was going to rape and murder shawna, erica was going to plant my sperm on shawnas body along with other false evidence, joan and eric met up at walmart along with vickie {joans sister} and the investigators and was waiting at the front door for someone to let them in, other employees showed up and the investigators pretended to have caught me in the act, [ referring to eric in kayles room,} and saying they got me on fotogenic, once inside the investigators proceed to put on a phony show of investigating while in the presence of walmart employees while joan and eric and vickie are trashing my name to there fellow employees turning everyone there against me, joan was even addmeting eric has been impersonating me for other crimes, after hours and hours of the investigators claiming in walmart employees presence that i was doing wrong things and joan and eric telling countless lies about me the investigators gave permission to all of them to pedifie me, joan started printing out flyers about me at walmart,{ unknown to me whether they used them or not.} i learned they had me under a illegal video survealence the hole apartment had hidden cameras and the investigators asked there supervisor to take 6;30 off of joan because john ray broke in there, when i left joan and moved in to my daughters apartment about 3 or 4 days later the FBI took over the apartment above shawna and they proceeded to spread rumors in shawnas neiborhood, and was spying on us as well with hidden cameras, they didn’t know at that time that i knew they were up there, the ceiling in shawnas apartment has no insulation so i could hear them up there talking about editing my audio and discussing ways of killing me, i knew because they are members of authorities i couldn’t get help calling 911, not to mention i was very worried for my family’s safety i was afraid to tell shawna about this at this time for her own safety so i just continued to listen to the audio trying to learn as much about this as i could but for my own safety i pretended to not understand it well, about a week and a half after i left joan on April 7th donna { joans mother who also lives at shawnas apartment complex, } asked shawna if i could go to her apartment to fix her computer she said it wouldn’t work on the Internet, i didn’t want to but shawna insisted so i went over to Donna with shawna and tried to fix her computer, donna offered me a cup of coffee and i accepted, she brought me a cup of coffee and what looked like a mayonaze lid filled with sugar, i put 2 or 3 spoonfuls in my coffee and was sipping while working on her computer, finally i told donna i cant fix it and that maybe she should get a new computer, i drank up my coffee and me and shawna left to go back to shawnas apartment which isn’t far away, by the time i got to the stairs i started not feeling well, once inside i really started feeling very sick and needed to lie down, fifteen minutes later my head felt like there was acid eating away at me from the inside, not thinking clearly i called Joanne asking if she could take me to the hospital, during the drive there joan was looking at her rear view mirror a whole hell of a lot, which gave me the suspicion we were being followed, keep in mind neither joan nor those investigators knew yet that i knew about them, once at the hospital i was so fucked up and hurting in my head that i needed a wheelchair, once i was admitted and taken back to a emergency room i waited and waited and no doctor ever came and examed me, one person came in acting like a doctor but never examed me, he only wanted to put his finger in my ass supposed for a colon test of some sort, but he never asked me what was wrong, never examed my eyes or mouth or ears, never took my vitals, never took a urine sample, i was holding my head in severe pain and all he wanted was to put his finger in my ass, once done he left, a half hour later a male nurse brought me a bottle of something to drink saying i need to drink the whole bottle and then i was going to some room to have a kind of ex ray of some sort, never once did a doctor examine me nor did a doctor come in to explain what was going on, after i drank the bottle the nurse took me to a room for this ex ray then bro
    ught me back to my room, about a hour later a doctor came and explained that the only thing they could find wrong was there was a little bleeding in my colon and he recommended i follow up with a colanoscopie, needless to say i was totally shocked at his blatant attempt to ignore the fact that NOBODY EXAMED ME!!! i knew at this time that those investigators had somehow interfered with my medical treatment and done something to prevent a doctor from examine me! i went back to shawnas apartment still in pain in my head, it felt like acid burning in there, and to this day i am still in pain in my head over this, about a week after this i stopped pretending to know nothing about this crap with joan and the investigators and looked up at the ceiling where they were and called them a bunch of criminals and murderers and that i was completely discuss ted with them, shawna was home at this time but didn’t understand why i did that, an hour later shawna left for work and after that all hell broke loose up stairs, a whole lot of people in suits was going up there and there was some yelling and they seemed very angry, a lot of activity going on for the rest of that day in that apartment above shawnas place, at around 8 or 9 that nite several people went up there talking very loudly acting like they were looking at something and said very loudly { yep thats a pedophile alright.} and then him and a few others from that apartment ran out of there yelling at the top of there lungs through out the hole neaborhood calling me a pedophile, from this point on they was pedifieing me openly in shawnas neaborhood, just flat out calling me a pedophile to others in that neaborhood, this hole time i spent most of my time on the floor in pain from donna poisoning me, i flat out knew i could get no help calling 911 since these were people in authority doing this to me, they stopped doing this when shawna was around they didn’t want her to know about it, i told shawna about this but she didn’t believe me because she never witnessed any of it and no one at work mentioned this to her, she believed donna poisoned me but she never understood any of the other stuff, the investigators were quite until shawna left for work and was loud when she left, they would say things like { were going to FUCK you over now you son of a bitch!} i remained in the apartment for about a week after donna poisoned me unable to walk much because of the pain, around this time eric showed up downstairs talking very loudly up at the investigators, { the investigators were on the third floor on the patio and eric was on the ground talking up at them, shawnas app is in between them} and eric was loudly calling me a pedophile and giving my description to others who were out there trying to piss me off, i didn’t go out to confront him because i knew they wanted to shoot me, before he left he yelled up at the investigators telling them to make sure i drink my coffee, keep in mind they weren’t hiding any of there murder attempts from me, after all eric and joan had permission from the authorities to murder me so they just don’t give a shit, i have reason to believe the authorities pressed charges against me and gave my disscription on tv because where ever i go people seem to recognize me, people in shawnas old neaborhood would point over at me and say “there’s the guy they pedified.” ever since i have been under attack behind my back and in front of my face, i learned from that audio that they pedified me in prison so if i get arrested for anything i will likely be murdered in prison, after they poisoned me at some point they broke into shawnas app and replaced my audio with a differant version hoping i would think its the original, i didn’t fall for that,there version is nothing but a death threat against me and shawna and there demonstrating how they plan to frame my hole family and give them the blame for me being poisoned and pedofied, and at the end of it there flat out frameing me as a pedophile using my voice and kayles, although they made the mistake of admitting somewhere in the middle of the audio that there using kayles voice, on there replacement audio they threatened to pedofie shawna if i say something about this, well they already did that, what it amounts to is they tried to kill me and shawna, i caught them in the act , and then they threatened to kill us if i talk about it and then they tried to kill us again, so it does me no good to heed there threats, as far as I’m concerned they murdered me already and there in the process of murdering shawna right now, there have been too many attempts to tell them all on this, let me suffice it to say the other nite joan and a couple of her friends came here to murder me and that plan failed, but there not scared about it because they have some people in authority covering there asses, i write this on November 13th 2007 and at this very moment this apartment is under a illegal video survielence by the FBI, and they allow others over the Internet to spy on us and make fun of us, chances are there going to murder me for sending this because they made it clear there going to cover there asses, but thats why i saved the best for last.
    p.s. the address where this ocured is 8800 se causey loop n-205 clackamas OR 97086, the whole neaberhood there has heard of this and the authorities used a warrant to kick out the tenants above shawnas apartment

  22. FoolsGold says:

    Reno police trying to compile attendee-list at 10:00pm to 4:00am party one block from abduction site in belief that as guests left party to go to parked cars someone may have seen Brianna through the glass.

  23. Craig says:

    The murderer of poor Bri had a shaved groin, a very specific and telling rapist and murderer characteristic. Two kinds of men have shaved groins. Some gay men, a drag-queen, do. Gay men are not interested in sex with a female, let alone rape then murder of a female. The second kind is a male cross-dresser/transvestite. An analysis of Bri’s murderer reveals the following profile:

    1) Probably closeted male cross-dresser/transvestite,
    2) Probably white professional heterosexual male with a graduate degree in music or law as statistics reveal these professions attract male cross-dresser/transvestite to due to their “drama-queen” characteristics,
    3) A “drama-queen” subconsciously seeking to be exposed as any publicity/attention is better than no publicity/attention due to its increasingly addictive “rush” for him,
    4) Probably in late 50’s early 60’s, looks younger, normally clean-shaven,
    5) Probably was or is in academia, due to access to vulnerable females;
    a) Probably was teaching somewhere in grades 5-12 due to ages of females in those grades, and now part-time in public or private academia; grades 5-12, community college or university,
    b) Probably had affair with school secretary(s),
    6) Probably 5’6” to 5’9” tall, wears ½” to ¾” heel loafers, big-boned, husky,
    7) Probably has been living a secret double life since he was 12 or 13 years old,
    a) Probably only lives part-time in Reno area for several years due to having a compulsive long-term secret double-life elsewhere within easy driving distance of Reno,
    b) Probably has another compulsive long-term life, secret from Reno life, in the San Francisco Bay Area,
    8) His male personality very concerned/obsessed with,
    a) His keeping up an appearance of propriety,
    b) His keeping control,
    c) Keeping his secret a secret,
    9) Married and divorced 2 or 3 times due to his compulsive secret double life and the inevitable outings of his secret,
    a) Married using at least once, or more than once, California’s Confidential Marriage Certificate,
    10) Has an escalating history of violence to females,
    a) Probably started with passive aggressive violence to, and emotional manipulation of, wives and female students,
    b) Probably escalating to throwing things, breaking things, to “accidents” with subsequent injuries to wives,
    i) Probably record of wives injuries in local hospitals/doctors and local police departments; Reno Area and San Francisco Bay Area,
    c) Probably increasing complaints of professional misconduct,
    i) Probably record of in school records and public court records,
    d) Probably multiple divorces from same wife,
    i) Probably record of in public court records,
    e) Probably a bigamist; see Linda Chernus, University of Cincinnati clinical psychology professor, bigamist research. “They need to control women, to keep secrets and keep autonomy so no one knows what’s going on inside of them. They have a sense of invincibility, that they can get away with this. They think they can get away with anything.”
    11) Has uncontrollable fetishes,
    a) Probably leather,
    b) Probably rubber,
    c) Probably vinyl,
    d) Probably bondage,
    i) May have been seen in San Francisco bondage clubs,
    e) Has shopped for years in person at Reno Area and San Francisco Bay Area fetish stores,
    f) Has made fetish purchase for years via mail and later Internet using checking account and/or credit card,
    12) Has a collection of fetish photos of females in leather, rubber, vinyl, and bondage,
    13) Murdered Bri for several reasons,
    a) To elude his mechanisms of repression,
    i) Probably has repressed Bri’s murder,
    ii) Probably has repressed his 30 to 40 year history of increasing violence to females,
    (1) Probably turns/turned his violence around such that he claims/claimed the females are the violent ones against him,
    b) To keep his secret a secret,
    i) As he’s learned females in his life inevitably discover his secret,
    c) Because he projects his repressed female side onto females that in reality are not what he has projected them to be.
    i) He is attracted to a female allowing him to experiences his anima, projecting onto females he imagines they display what he is ashamed to let himself express.
    (1) He goes after a female or has a female in his life wear the high/fetish heels he craves to wear.
    (2) He goes after a female or has a female in his life wear the female/fetish clothes he craves to wear.
    (3) If she doesn’t wear the female/fetish attire he craves to wear, his expectations are not met therefor his subsequent and escalating punishment of the females who fail to live up to his compulsive expectations.
    d) Over several years, his punishment of females inevitably escalates into murder of a female,
    14) Always blames a female,
    15) Always creates the drama he blames the females for,
    16) Probably
    a) Narcissistic,
    b) Obsessive-compulsive, and
    c) Has mental disorders of Peter Pan Syndrome, Personality Disorder, Inversion, Escapism, Short-man Syndrome, and
    d) Two Personalities as his male personality views his female personality as separate,
    i) Given his female personality a separate and female name.
    ii) His female persona views other females as competition enough to murder them,
    iii) His female and male personas are repelled by his male cross-dressing personality, resulting in his self-hatred,
    e) Autogynephile; see J. Michael Bailey, Northwestern University psychology professor studies and Donald Laub, MD, and psychiatrist Donald Fisk’s Stanford University School of Medicine transvestite studies,
    17) Has engaged in risky behavior since teenager,
    18) Probable hobby: Ballroom dance, due to access to vulnerable females and its abundance of mirrors, both requirements for cross-dressers/transvestites,
    a) Probably known at Reno area and San Francisco Bay Area ballroom dances,
    i) Dance characteristic: he gets off watching himself in the mirrors surrounding the dance floor,
    19) Probably Democrat,
    20) Does NOT attend any cross-dressing support groups,
    21) Sees/saw mother as emasculating/emasculated his father who he idolizes/idolized,
    a) Blames mother for his perceived shortness,
    22) Probably lives very cheap in an area of high affluence to bolster his low self-esteem,
    a) Hides his cheap lifestyle pretending to be much higher up economically,
    i) Probably living on a boat, in a trailer, RV or manufactured home, or an in-law unit,
    ii) Home characteristic: mirrors as he gets off watching himself cross-dressed in mirrors, floor,

    If you have any information or even a suspicion, please contact the Reno Police, Washoe County Secret Witness, or San Francisco Police. Thank you.

    Teaching is a profession that tends to attract sexual predators. Personality disorders such as cross-dressing, leather, vinyl, rubber, bondage fetishes, are characterized by rigid and on-going patterns of thought and action fixed fantasies. The inflexibility and pervasiveness of these behavioral patterns often cause serious personal and social difficulties, as well as a general impairment of functioning. Personality disorders are defined by the American Psychiatric Association as “an enduring pattern of inner experience and behavior that deviates markedly from the expectations of the culture of the individual who exhibits it”. These patterns, as noted, are inflexible and pervasive across many situations, due in large part to the fact that such behavior is perceived to be appropriate by that individual.

    Transvestic fetishism is defined by as one of the paraphilias, a group of mental disorders characterized by obsession with unusual sexual practices or with sexual activity involving nonconsenting or inappropriate partners such as children. The essential feature of transvestic fetishism is recurrent intense sexual urges and sexually arousing fantasies involving dressing in clothing associated with members of the opposite sex. Another term for transvestic fetishism is cross-dressing. Transvestic fetishism is considered a sexual deviation. For transvestites stimuli associated with cross-dressing is just about always necessary for erotic arousal and are always included in sexual activity, if not actually acted out alone or with a partner. It is important to note that this activity is closely associated with achieving sexual gratification.

    Persons with transvestic fetishes should not be assumed to be homosexual. According to DSM-IV-TR, most men who practice cross-dressing are basically heterosexual in their orientation. Some, however, have occasional sexual encounters with other men. Cross-dressers often choose to hide this part of themselves and sometimes internalize a sense of shame and guilt as psychiatrists and society still consider cross-dressing to be pathological.

    Persons with transvestic fetishism rarely seek psychotherapy on their own account. In rare instances, the patient has agreed to consult a psychiatrist only because his wife or girlfriend is distressed by the cross-dressing. Most persons who have a transvestic fetish never seek treatment from professionals.

    The prognosis for treatment of transvestic fetishism is poor, as most persons with this disorder do not desire to change. Most cases in which treatment was demanded by a spouse as a condition of continuing in a marriage have not been successful. By the way, it was German physician Magnus Hirschfeld who coined the term “transvestism” (Latin for “cross-dressing”) in 1910. Hirschfeld was himself a cross-dresser. Cross-dressing is a fetish, along with the rubber, vinyl, leather, bondage. A cross-dresser can’t get excited without cross-dressing or pretending he is cross-dressed or with the woman on top while he pretends to be the woman. That’s when therapists describe it as a fetish. A fetish is an eroticised object whose use is crucial to a person’s sexual function as it provides psychological stimulation. Cross-dressing is only one of many fetishes. When both people in a couple are interested in the same thing – she likes to be on top, he likes the bottom, he’s ecstatic when she wears vinyl, the issue of narrow erotic interests doesn’t seem like a problem. It’s when one person gets bored with the routine, or never liked it in the first place, that couples have difficulty. Many women originally start out trying to please his fetishes because she doesn’t realize what they are, fetishes. She thinks eventually they’ll get to a more normal relationship not realizing that will never happen.

    A true fetish – a long-term, rigid requirement, or more than one – doesn’t change. Then he acts out with a variety of partners usually women desperate for a husband and young girls he can coerce due to his position in their lives, like as their teacher.

    Most cross-dressers have Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) as NPD is a defense against shame. It is defined as a mental illness primarily characterized by extreme focus on oneself, and is a maladaptive, rigid, and persistent condition that may cause significant distress and functional impairment. There is a preoccupation with fantasies. They believe that he or she is “special” and unique and can only be understood by other special people. They have a strong sense of entitlement to the point they will take advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends.

    They lack empathy and are arrogant to hide that they are easily hurt, oversensitive, ashamed and over react hiding that hides in a generic state of shame obsessed with neutralising devaluation by seeing other, usually their spouses and employers as unjust abusers. As a coping strategy, the cross-dresser avoids sharing “shameful” thoughts and feelings with partners and significant others due to fear of rejection so they behave in a critical or superior way toward others. Most cross-dressers are also The Peter-Pan psychological type characterized by immaturity or certain sorts of psychological, social, and sexual problems. The type of personality in question, usually male, is immature and narcissistic. The characteristics of include irresponsibility towards ones’ spouse, rebelliousness against ones’ spouse, pottering about, anger, narcissism, manipulativeness, and the belief that he is beyond society’s laws and norms. It is the adult little boy who, when in a relationship or in seeking a relationship, acts out a need for mothering. It is useful to compare the Jungian archetype of Puer Aeternus, the eternal boy.

    Cross-dressers also often have Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD): “a pervasive pattern of instability of interpersonal relationships, self-image and affects, as well as marked impulsivity, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts.” It is marked by frantic efforts by the cross-dresser to avoid real or imagined abandonment including repeatedly divorcing their spouse. Cross-dressers have patterns of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships characterized by alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation due to their persistently unstable cross-dresser identity disturbance. There is Impulsivity like promiscuous sex, eating disorders, binge eating, or reckles driving. There is recurrent self-mutilating behavior. There is inappropriate anger often acted out in passive aggressive. It has been noted that there is probably no other mental disorder about which so many articles and books have been written, yet about which so little is known based on empirical research. Studies suggest that individuals with BPD tend to experience frequent, strong and long-lasting states of aversive tension, often triggered by perceived rejection, being alone, or perceived failure. Individuals with BPD may show lability (changeability) between anger and anxiety or between depression and anxiety and temperamental sensitivity to emotive stimuli. The negative emotional states particularly associated with BPD have been grouped into four categories: extreme feelings in general; feelings of destructiveness or self-destructiveness; feelings of fragmentation or lack of identity; and feelings of victimization. Individuals with BPD are very sensitive to the way others treat them, overreacting strongly to perceived criticism or hurtfulness. Their feelings about others often shift within minutes from positive to negative, generally after a what others look at as a minor disappointment or perceived threat of losing someone. Self-image can also change rapidly from extremely positive to extremely negative. Impulsive behaviors are common, including unsafe sex and recklessness in general. Attachment studies suggest individuals with BPD, while being high in intimacy- or novelty-seeking, can be hyper-alert to signs of rejection or not being valued and tend towards insecure, ambivalent, preoccupied or fearful attitudes towards relationships. They tend to view the world generally as dangerous and malevolent, and themselves as powerless, vulnerable, unacceptable and unsure in self-identity. Individuals with BPD are often described, including by some mental health professionals (and in the DSM-IV), as deliberately manipulative.

    That is correct that cross-dressers are not harmless. Schools, are notorious for these men with secrets resulting in their living double lives. Probably why these men choose to live and work his adult life there. Unfortunately the statistics do bear out that domestic violence from the man is a characteristic of all male cross-dressers marriages or relationships who fail to immediately disclose their secrets. Once outed, all these men turn it on its head and claim it’s the wife (female) who is the abuser, the mentally unstable one.

    Those secrets, deception, manipulativeness, selfishness, playing the victim, deceit, narcissism, arrogance, control, and drama, are all characteristics of all cross-dressers. The more closeted they are, which usually happens as they age, the deeper and darker the characteristics. The retired San Francisco attorney in the article, who mentioned he’s on his fifth marriage, and his fifth wife, like the previous four, didn’t know he was a cross-dresser when she married him. That is abuse. A marriage doomed. Larry-Lauren’s comment about his marriage unraveling due to his secret he kept from his wife, his cross-dressing. That is abuse. Another marriage doomed. Both these men mention they go to cross-dressing support groups. That is not enough. So the abuser goes to listen to other abusers who all agree that abusing is ok. All the cross-dressed men who over the years I saw come into the B& D Clubs are now being dragged into counseling with me by their wives or girlfriends after finding out afterwards about their secrets. Those are absolutely devastating secrets to keep from one’s spouse. Not even one of these outed marriages/relationships has survived his outing as a cross-dresser. Their wives and girlfriends feel too betrayed by his secrets leaving a grievous level of hurt permanently scarring the women. The only marriages/relationships I’ve seen survive with a cross-dresser is when the wife/girlfriend knew from moment one of their meeting and was able to openly negotiate their relationship up front. That is what I counsel. Larry Wochowski’s solution is the only workable one for a cross-dresser and I commend him for it. He found a woman, she knew right up front, and he openly lives in a world and constructively contributes to it where he is hurting no one as he lives what he is. That is what mental health is all about. Taking responsibility for what one is and how one interacts with others. By living an all-around healthy life.

    Almost a couple million years ago, through evolution, our species and others were hard- wired for certain behaviors. Such as Loving and Being Loved in Return. Such as females of several species are hard wired for seeking Love aka A Provider. Hard-wired means done instinctively. Humans being are one species, Black Tipped Hang Fly, Common Tern, Roadrunner and Preying Mantis being others. These females, as they are the ones for getting pregnant for propagation of the species, seek a male who will after sex, provide for them and their presumed offspring from the sex act. That providing includes lifetime food, shelter, protection and always being there for her. That is why women insist on marriage and take his marriage vows so seriously.

    The male is hard-wired for offering dinner dates. In Anatomy of Love, anthropologist Helen Fisher describes the offering of food as the “universal feature of wooing.” The male Black Tipped Hang Fly plies the female with a feast of aphids, daddy longlegs and flies. “The common male Tern often brings a fish to his beloved. The male Roadrunner presents a little lizard.” Today’s woman is still getting this Love aka Get A Provider directive from her genes. Does not matter if she is a staunch feminist, earns more than $100,000 a year, or has no plans for children. She has to eat off his plate. For that reason the “joke” that woman are “What is mine is mine and what is his is also mine.” That is why birthday, anniversary and holiday presents from him to her, and a lot of them, are so vitally important to her. So is public handholding. Sleeping so close, they’re wrapped together. Sitting next to each other at a table rather than across each other after he has seated her. Him writing her love-letters. He opening her car door. Him wearing her wedding ring. Him publicly kissing her hello and good-bye with the resulting transference of some of her lipstick to him. Him having flowers delivered to her office. All that and so much more is part of her two million-year-old hard-wiring.

    Women instinctively want a Provider who will always be there for her. Literally, symbolically and figuratively. As I’ve written before, I specialize in men who cross-dress and the women who fall in love with them before they know about his fetish. From the viewpoint of the hard wiring of the woman, a male cross-dresser is a sheep in wolf clothing. After the woman finds out about his cross-dressing, that trauma leaves a massive psychic scar as it attacked almost 2 million years of her hard wiring. From the viewpoint of the hard wiring of the woman, her provider who divorces her less than 30 days after their marriage, then goes on to divorce her four more times, has violated her to the core of her being. That is why the vast majority of women have a nervous breakdown after they find out about their provider’s infidelities. Or when he has her served with divorce papers. Or when she finds out he is a cross-dresser. Her hard wiring interprets all of these as that he is not there for her. That he broke his Provider Promise or Violated His Marriage Vows. The nervous breakdown ranges from mild to serious. The wife/girlfriend has dragged both of them in after her discovery of his cross-dressing. He’s always still in denial after his outing. Self-centeredness and selfishness are cross-dresser characteristics. Therefore, cross-dressers are Masters at Appearances/Deception with years of experience Hiding Their Secret. The older the cross-dresser is that I see, the more likelihood of his having a Double Life. From the viewpoint of psychology, he is often a Serial Abuser. His behavior is often Domestic Violence.

    A cross-dresser lives with a secret. Their secret, their fetish, or menu of fetishes, are compulsive needs. A cross-dresser is heterosexual. A male closeted cross-dresser’s sex life with an adult female is usually brief and mutually unfulfilling to the cross-dresser and his female partner due to his secret. Often times he is even impotent as the male cross-dresser gains more sexual satisfaction from being cross-dressed and masturbating in front of a mirror as the cross-dresser is chained to his fetish. A cross-dresser who simultaneously expresses his fetish and sex with a female child or vulnerable female gains fulfillment. Intercourse with a female child or vulnerable female while cross-dressed gives him more sexual satisfaction than his masturbating cross-dressed in front of a mirror. That leads me to a disturbing hypothesis of why many child abusers kill the girl. Is it in order to keep his cross-dressing secret? The comments about how San Francisco, a town known for tolerance, is not tolerant of cross-dressers, but is of drag queens, who are homosexual, were telling. The conjecture is that a cross-dresser is more concerned with keeping his cross-dressing secret than the discovery of his sex with a child. He is unconcerned about the discovery of his sexual act as it proves he is a man who is able to perform. The discovery of his cross-dressing though brings into doubt his masculinity. The hard wiring is absolutely correct for men and women.

    The lies are to protect his secret, his cross-dressing, and a secret his attorneys most likely share. If my hypothesis is correct, that makes him, potentially, a very dangerous man. Like the child abuser who kills the child, both are unconcerned about their sexual act. Both are proud of themselves as a man who was able to perform. It is their secret that they will do anything to protect. For that reason, serial abuse and domestic violence and murder is done to protect the secret that he is a cross-dresser.

  24. canuck says:

    I’m a cop up in Canada and just I heard about this case on Dateline NBC tonight. Pure tragedy. My deepest condolences go out to Briana’s family and friends. I’ve been in on investigations like this one, and it rips the heart out of all involved.
    Comment #5…you are in the cop community what we refer to as a “puke” or a “shitrat”. Remember..what goes around comes around, someday you or somebody you know will feel the trajic loss of somebody you care about. When that happens I hope you remember your dispicable comments regarding Briana. Enough dont deserve another second of thought.
    As for Craig’s rant about a crossdresser being a good suspect…all I can say is that you are an idiot. You know nothing of the “anti-social personality types” that actually commit horrible crimes. Crossdressers you seem to say feel guilty and hide from their fetish. Feeling guilty means you have a conscience. Briana’s murderer likely has no conscience. This suspect simply shaved shaved his body to prevent pubic hairs or chest hairs from contaminating the crime scene. If you’ve seen even one CSI MIAMI or a LAW and ORDER you’d know that. And if you must rant…keep them shorter.
    Anyways, Im sure the RENO police will apprehend this suspect. We had a young woman and a teen killed in our city within two summers…it took us two years but we caught both suspects. It will take time…but they will get the bastard.
    Canuck Cop

  25. Ted says:

    “Comment by Craig | March 20, 2008”

    You seem to have an awful lot to say.

  26. canuck says:

    Exactly Ted…and none of what Craig says is intelligent. I guess his pantyhose is too tight for him…lol
    Canuck Cop.

  27. FoolsGold says:

    Reno police have issued a slightly amended description.

    I too think the shaved midsection is due to a forensic evidence awareness rather than some personal or professional activity.

    I thought it strange how one of the three girls flagged down a car that had slowed to go over a bump in the parking lot and asked for a lift from a driver she could not even see clearly. The man in the SUV drove the three girls to where they wanted to go even though it was out of his way and was probably happy to know they got to their destination safely. He volunteered fingerprints and dna samples when he came forward after the initial publicity.

  28. FoolsGold says:

    April 4th: Reno police posted further amendments to vehicle and suspect descriptions on cityofreno site.

  29. FoolsGold says:

    May 27th 2008: Nothing new on either suspect or vehicle descriptions. The usual fundraisers and prayer sessions going on. Sales of self defense items still brisk in the area.

  30. FoolsGold says:

    Flag football fundraising events are simply not going to solve this case!

  31. Levi Everett says:

    good luck

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